Many family law attorneys promote their aggressive approach to representing clients, which reinforces the message that assertiveness is the key to “winning” a divorce. At the law office of Janet L. Goehle, Attorney at Law, in St. Paul, Minnesota, we believe that the art of negotiation is infinitely more valuable to family law attorneys and their clients than a penchant for being pushy. My 30-plus years of successful outcomes in the full spectrum of family law issues confirm this approach.As a St. Paul divorce and family law lawyer, I understand how emotionally taxing divorce can be for all family members. That is why I take a holistic approach to providing legal representation. I aim to reduce stress by proactively dealing with the emotions that cause flare-ups and stalemates between spouses.